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I know I’m a day late and a dollar short. However, HERE’S MY TWO CENTS!
Victoria Secret is pretty much a staple in lingerie, almost every girl has been to Victoria’s Secret for her first bra fit and come out with their first bra or thong(like I did). Eventually, they go off to other places once the novelty of the brand wore off. I myself have never bought a bra from Victoria mostly because I’ve never wanted a real push up bra, and as I got older and my breast grew I can’t even fit in their bras anymore. When I started working at a bra store, I had women of all ages come in and tell me how they can’t stand VS anymore and how the bras fall apart. I can’t tell you how happy I was to just buy their panties.
The women would tell me how the bras would fall apart after a few wears but most of the time I hear women say they don’t want lacey push-up and satiny bras every day. They just want good, supportive that support them and fits them, something that seems to have escaped Victoria Secrets grasps so sayeth their own Chief Marketing Officer they’re not here for everyone, they sell a fantasy. Seriously here’s the quote from ELLE
“It is a specialty business; it isn’t a department store,” he said. “I’m always asking myself: If we do that, what is the reason we did it? Why did we include that person? And did we include them to shut up a reporter? Did we include them because it was the right thing to do or because it was the politically correct thing to do?”
Really dude, so you’re telling me that you really are only here for men and their fantasy… not for my boobies or supporting me, the woman paying for the bras and wearing them. You might as well just call it Victor’s Secret since it’s a fantasy for men not a place for women. Unlike Third Love…Third Love is for the Girls, here’s what they had to say in regards to Victoria’s Secret statement according to ELLE.
“You market to men and sell a male fantasy to women. But at ThirdLove, we think beyond, as you said, a “42-minute entertainment special.” Your show may be a “fantasy” but we live in reality. Our reality is that women wear bras in real life as they go to work, breastfeed their children, play sports, care for ailing parents, and serve their country.”
So beautiful, I don’t have anything else to say, but do you? Let me know in the comments
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One weekend to appeal to his athletic side she asked him to go on a hike after work. Sophia isn’t much of a hiker but she’s going to try it in the name of love.
It started off beautifully they were taking pictures, laughing, and giggling but about an hour later the sun began to set and Sophia’s anxiety began to set in. She thought it would be a 45-minute walk but it was really more like an hour he feet were starting to hurt, her sew in was getting hot, and her back was hurting. But they haven’t even gotten to the top. Marcus, however, was loving the walk, he even took pictures of the sunset.
She powered through right before they made it to the top before she snapped… As Marcus was taking his pictures by the waterfall. She snapped at him to hurry up and leave before she heads down by herself. He snapped back that he didn’t even want to be here. They end up argued all the way down to the car and ride back home.
While in the car she began to think if she does manage to make this work does she want it? Is any kind of relationship worth saving with a guy who doesn’t even want to try? She left the car without saying goodbye and she shuts the door realizing he’s not worth the effort.
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Recently I’ve started therapy. Sometimes life gets really hard for me and shopping and friends laughs aren’t enough. I never thought I would get here but here I am.
I set up the appointment with my doctor on Tuesday a day I had nothing planned. I like to stew with my thoughts plus I didn’t know what type of condition I’d be in after the first time.
There were a series of forms I had to fill out that told her my family history with mental health and also a brief overview of any traumas I’ve experienced. I wrote each down and thought to my self ‘she’s going to think I’m so fucked up.’ But I had to be honest. If I feel any kind of judgment I can just leave, right?
Finally, the day came and I fussed over my outfit only to arrive and see myself in the elevator reflection thinking I look terrible.
I walked in the waiting room and it was full of natural light with hopeful messages all around. I didn’t know the etiquette here so I just sat down stayed off my phone and looked straight ahead. After a few moments my therapist came out and took me back.
We talked about her dogs (which are all huge and fluffy😍) as she looked over my paperwork. As I thought she said you’ve been through quiet alot for someone who’s only 26. I smiled and said yeah.
We talked a bit about my past traumas and other things. I was surprised I only cried twice, but it was painful opening up old wounds. Once it was over I didn’t feel any better. I was happy I got something’s off my chest but I didn’t feel hopeful. As soon as I left I went in my car and cried and just drove around town eating and I voted early. When I went home I just watched TV and drank. Not the best but it’s how I cope.
Even though I didn’t leave happy. but I wasn’t hopeless and when I was crying I didn’t spiral down the depression shoot. I went out, took a break and spent more time out than I usually would.
So that’s good, right?
Have any of you been the therapy? What’s your views on it.
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