Life Update!!


Hey guys, it’s me, Kim coming back with a vengeance. I was actually out on a mental health leave and need to take a break and focus on me. As you may as well know I do have depression and anxiety. I had a really bad episode on night and relapsed bad. I had to […]

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What To Do When People Are ‘Trying’ You


When your coworkers get to clingy, annoying, etc it gets to the point where people are trying you. If you’re not familiar with that term it’s when people keep getting on your nerves or keep saying or doing little things like you won’t go off. Moment like this you really have to calm down and […]

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My Detox For When You Just Feel Gross


We all have those days where we just feel blah. Maybe you drank too much, just came off your cycle, or binged on way too much fast food. Or maybe you’re like me and dis all three. I’m not perfect but who is? Everyone has those days and its important not to beat yourself up […]

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2020 Critics Choice Awards: My Favorite Looks

Celebrity Style, Fashion

Let’s be honest, we only tune in to award shows f oh r the red carpet. Well maybe it’s for performances as well -but I only care for the looks. Speaking of looks the Critics Choice Awards just happened. I have to talk about the looks here they are. Thank you tmz for the photos

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Tarot Card Of The Week: The Hierophant


You guy ready to learn something new? That’s the theme of this week apparently so sayeth my Tarot Card this week, the Hierophant. The only thing that surprised me was this wasn’t in direct alignment in anything that has been happening in my life, so I’m really excited to see what happens. First, let’s find […]


Tarot Card Of The Week : The Death Card


These are actual cards I’m pulling guys, so, it’s reflective of what I’m personally going through. You’ll notice if you read my life posts then they’ll kind of line up. Like this card of the week Death a relationship is ending so it makes sense. Any way you want to know what the Death tarot […]


Why I Avoid “Queen” Men

Sex & Relationships

Do you know those guys that slide into your DM and git you with that “How are you beautiful queen?” line? My eyes literally roll and it’s a guaranteed way to get me not to respond. Just say hi like a normal person and let’s keep it moving. I’ve always considered the use of a […]


Best Buys Of September: Soaps and Beauty

Beauty, Living

I’ve recently started back shopping. Not just for household goods but like trying out new items just for the hell of trying it. I’m empowering my curios mind again and I have to say.. it has some hits and some misses. I want to share them with you because if you’re still feeling your way […]


My Tarot Card Of The Week: The Tower

Living, Spirituality

I’m an avid reader of tarot cards. I love how they give me insight on the week and help me prepare for any obstacles I might face. I do weekly readings because when I was doing it daily, all the cards keep the same theme. Like when I was going through a rough patch I […]


Moving Up and Moving In

Sex & Relationships

Something weird is happening in my life. I’m slowly coming around to letting my old flame move in. I’ve toyed with the idea when I was madly in like with him of course, I was into it. After toying with thoughts about getting serious back and forth in my mind I come to the conclusion. […]


Easy Ways I’m Going Eco-Friendly

Living, Opinions

The health of our mother earth is finally at the forefront of everyone’s mind. We’re becoming more proactive or our effect on the earth and are trying our best to reverse the damage. I for one am trying to do my part to lessen my carbon footprint. If you’re interested in learning on how to […]


Fool Me Once Shame On You

Living, Sex & Relationships

Don’t you hate it when you finally decide to swallow your pride and give somebody a second chance and it backfires? Even though part of you tells yourself that it’s a bad idea you just throw caution to the wind and try to live your best life. It usually doesn’t end up like that. I […]