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#ProductLust : c.Booth Body Lotion

I’m a huge advocate for moisturizing I’ve been using this moisturizer for about a year and I’m just now buying another bottle and tbh doesn’t it still look full? I love products that have treatment in them it makes life so much easier and c.Booth […]

All Wrapped Up Like A Gram Of Cocaine

All Wrapped Up Like A Gram Of Cocaine

As you may or may not know I have been blogging for 9 years now. I’ve had a multitude of blogs, all pretty much the same topic; fashion, beauty, and life. Over the recent years I’ve seen my life going in many different ways, When […]

To The Left, To The Left

To The Left, To The Left

When it comes to relationships even the longest standing can enter the danger zone when things get real.


I’ve always been one to bite my tongue especially when it comes to friends. I rather just have you rant about your issues than to tell you why this issue is really your fault or how it’s not that serious. That’s what friends do right?

With one of my oldest friend, I’ve been growing more and more frustrated with them. Really what it is, Is I’ve been hanging out with newer people and trying new things. When I go back home to visit my mom and them I’m crestfallen. I’m happy to see them but they’re always with the same group doing the same things. I feel bad because I feel like I’m looking down and I know they’re trying to do better.

Encouraging words are usually met with defensive reasons. Whenever I try to add a bit of criticism or advice it’s usually shut down if I don’t shower it in between praises. It’s a practice that’s getting old for me.


Last week my friend and I got into a fight when I did get honest with him. They hung up the phone on me when my floodgates burst open. I told them really everything that I held in about them and they hung up on me.

I didn’t regret it and no I didn’t call back. It makes me wonder if we were truly honest with all of our friends and family would we have any relationships left?. It amazes that the first time I was honest that it was met with such anger.

I thought about this as I laid down for the night. I decided, in this new year, I’ll let things fall where they may. Seeing how I’ve been frustrated with tour relationship maybe a much-needed break is needed.

Stripless In The City

Stripless In The City

Dating is a great way to meet people, explore the city, and find what you like and don’t like in a partner. More often than not you find what you don’t like. Scarlett just finally had time after a long day to rest with a […]

#Fashion of The Golden Globes

#Fashion of The Golden Globes

The first red carpet of the year. Can’t you smell the hair spray? Let’s talk fashion. I’m not doing a love and hate this year. I’m simply going to list the looks I absolutely loved on the carpet. Photos from whowhatwear Twitter page

A little Bare or Full Bush

A little Bare or Full Bush

illustration by Laura Kennedy found on Irish Times

Since the 90’s it was pretty common for women to shave. It wasn’t normal/common before, but now it’s almost weird if you don’t. I’m not a huge shaver, it’s nothing political. I’m not taking a stance against the patriarchy with my pubic hair, I’m just lazy. If no one is going down there, why should I shave?

*Note: I shave my whoo-ha because as a sign of respect. I want you to partake in my forbidden fruit, I’ll give you a clean plate. I expect the same from them as well.

That being said since I’m coming out of hibernation and getting back on the scene(watch out fellas 😎 ) I thought I’d celebrate my coming out with a shave. Its been a good 2 months since I set a razor upon my feminine flower but, why the hell not? So I shaved and honestly I miss the hair.

We have pubic hair because it helps prevent bacteria getting into the body, it cools you off by getting the sweat off of you, prevents friction in clothing and a whole bunch of other reasons. Within my 24hours without hair down there I can say this, it got really sweaty down there, like a sauna. It is so annoying, how I dealt with hit prior I don’t know

When I was unshaven though I was a lot more carefree. I didn’t feel anything itch and my fluids (like discharge, sweat, and that lovely blood) swishing around down there.

I just prefer hair. I will say though with it shaven my body is reacting in the way I thought it would. I’m horny again. I feel like doing more with my self aka not going out in the same leggings I’ve worn for almost 3 days straight and my hair is getting done. So is it really that bad?

Tell me your thoughts, do you shave? Or are you a 70’s babe rocking a afro? Let me know in the comments and don’t forget to share and subscribe

I’ll Do Anything For Love, But Not That

I’ll Do Anything For Love, But Not That

When it comes to the world of dating it’s hard to really know what you are. One minute you think it’s going somewhere and there’s a chance then it knocks you back ten paces. Adrian is a blast from the past. We met up in […]

Awaken The Magic Inside You

Awaken The Magic Inside You

Welcome to the first post of the new year! I know you have so much to celebrate and be happy for. The past year was a very trying one for me, anything that could have happened to me did. I know everyone says that and […]

#ProductLust Love Beauty and Planet

#ProductLust Love Beauty and Planet

I’ve been hearing about this all natural brand drugstore brand I had to see what the buzz was all about.

If you’ve never heard of Love Beauty and Planet it’s an all natural skin care line that does not test on animals. Their goal is ethical skin care.

Here’s what they claim:

  • Beauty Packed In 100% Recycled Bottles
  • They conditioners are lightweight and rinse out fast.
  • The products are infused with all natural ingredients like organic coconut oil and murumuru butter.
  • It’s vegan, and organically sourced products for there fragrance oils. Questionable since you’re owned by a company that still tests on animals but let’s go with it( I didn’t know that prior to the purchase and trial run).
  • They don’t use parabens, silicones, or dyes.

Now that we know a bit about the back story about the company let’s pretend Unilever isn’t testing on Mr. Whiskers (they are working on other methods but still…). I was at Harris Teeter lazily strolling the empty aisles after work too bored to go home. I strolled past Love Beauty and Planet and thought “I’ve always wanted to try this brand, let’s do it.”

When I got home I hoped in the shower and lathered up. I wasn’t aamzing lux and it smelt like lotion. It has a nice rich texture in the shower. Although it has a nice texture and it says moisturizing, when I left the shower my skin didn’t feel soft, didn’t feel pampered it was like I washed with some off brand Bath an Body Works wash. My skin felt tight after.

I know a lot of natural products aren’t the moist hydrating but with the use of coconut oil it should be more moisturizing then this since the oil is really like a wax, so I should have more moisture than this.

All in all I would rate it a 6.5 out of 10. it’s not awful (as long as you have a good moisturizer) but you have to account for them testing on animals.

The Coolest Thing Netflix Has Done #EVER: Black Mirror Bandersnatch

I couldn’t get into Bird Box I couldn’t. I could, however, get into Black Mirror. Netflix I really have to say you’ve outdone yourself with this interactive movie. You remember those choose your own destiny books you read when you were little? Netflix turned it […]


What Happened When I Was Sober For A Week

What Happened When I Was Sober For A Week

I have/had a drinking problem, I’m well aware of my tendencies. However it’s not as bad as everyone thinks. A few weeks back I was going to see a therapist a few weeks back to work through somethings.

When she found out how often I would drink (every day starting when I woke up) she asked if I considered my self an alcoholic. I told her I would meet her in the middle and say I showed symptoms of alcoholism because I didn’t have withdrawal symptoms (like shaking or irritable )when I wasn’t drinking. She asked, “Well how do you know if you never stopped?”

That’s where it all started

I don’t like not having answers to questions about myself and that was one question I did not have an answer to. So two bottles later I decided to cut out drinking.

Day 1-2

I was fine, I missed drinking. I was just going through the motions with work and I would come home. I didn’t want to really go out or talk to people. On the 2nd day, my manager came and asked me if everything was ok because I was being robotic. Of course, I told her I was fine I couldn’t tell her I was drinking at work.

Day 4

The headaches start, they’re mild, you hardly notice them but they are there. It’s been pretty steady since the second day. Maybe I do have withdrawals… Also, my depression as came back and that wasn’t cool I couldn’t even blame it on me sobering up.

Day 5

I woke up basically and I realized where my unhappiness came from. While I don’t have the most stressful life, my job is a large part of my unhappiness because there’s hardly any work-life balance. So I feel like I’m always there, with people who are ok, but I’m not necessarily looking forward to seeing any of them, ever.

Day 6-7

I have made it my week! I set new goals found a new passion and calling and I’m on my way. I do miss drinking and thought when the weekend hit the first thing I was going to do was go to liquor store and chug a bottle. Instead, I woke up and meditated, I cleaned my whole apartment and I’ve been working out.

Conclusion

I’m not going to continue down this road of avoiding alcohol forever. I will drink but just limit it to a few days a week like the weekend. I do see how my mental state has improved. So again moderation and maybe not grab a drink first thing in the morning lol.

Edit: I just want to mention today I drank 2 glasses of wine, and I still got a headache. So maybe it’s not from withdrawals.